Confused as Ever

[Snow White]

Thanks for thinking of me. I am ok. I won on the radio again this morning,(had to pretend I was my sister) tickets to a show that my sister and I are going to see on the 29th and a easter basket from a gourmet chocolate shop. Things are going. I am not sure how far you read up about my weekend. It was different. It wasn't bad - in fact I had a really good time, except for I kept thinking of everyone telling me what I was doing wrong during it. I definately continue to live in the moment instead of making changes that might effect my future.

My H has been different since Sat night. He has called me Neecy or Denisey a number of times which he has not done post-ow. Everytime I get up he wonders what I am doing now and why I can't just hang out with him. I have not asked if he has called OW, he probably has, but he hasn't left my side while I have been home. Very different, situations keep evolving.

A lady at work send out quotes every morning. Monday her quotes were on change. Here is the first one -

When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. ~ Victor Frankl

Thought it was very applicable to these boards.

I have a question though. I really appreciate the advice I have rec'd from puppy and others that have been maybe outside the DB techniques but have worked for them. From the few times I have been successful in applying these techniques I believe they would work for me too, that being said, I do not seem to have the ability to apply them consistently. So, as I do not seem to be able to get a copy of divorce remedy, if I was strictly applying the techniques in the book what did I do wrong on Saturday Night?