Hey SPM, sorry you are not doing well. I know it feels like you have lost everything, but really, as long as you havent lost yourself, you will be ok. You know, I could give you all the platitudes about how hard times make you stronger and all that. And that you must go through something in order to come out the other side. And they are all true. But sometimes its ok to just say, it sucks what you are going through, its not right and its unfair.

Having said that, this journey that we find ourselves on really is eye-opening and soul searching, isnt it? And while I know you would rather anything else but what is happening, I really feel that in the end, we will be better people for having gone through it.

Please remember that you are a man of worth, that you are a wonderful father who loves his children, and that you are an honest, caring human being. She cant take away your worth, your dignity, your honesty or your truth. I know you will be ok, I just know it.