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I took the plunge and called him tonight to see if he wanted to go eat with just me..no kids..I don't think I will ask him again..I need to have him make a move, I can't always be the one asking.


Good day Sue,
Sue, do I hear a bolder Sue coming out?! I'm still glad to see you take the initiative to ask. Every now and again, you need to put a toe in the water to check if there is any change. I'm sorry to hear the pace is still just inching along, but you are right ... it is still progress being made.

Sue, you had mentioned being part of video club, perhaps is time to start expanding your social circle some more. Any other clubs you might be interested in joining? Maybe attend some penny socials or start up a ladies night one day a week. If you start filling up your time with activities that don't involve H, he might see it as you are moving more towards a life without him and may start him rethinking just how long you may wait around for him. I know ... this is the pot calling the kettle black here, but I too am starting to work on this).

'til later,
KAW