New and Alone 2

[addie]

Jen, this is all part of the rollercoaster we all go through. Some days/moments you feel good and then other times you feel like saying to heck with all of it.
Just like your H, my H also doesn't look me in the eye most of the time - it may be guilt.
Whenever you can't validate what he is saying/feeling, then it's probably best to say nothing at all. You don't have to agree with what he's feeling, just say "I'm sorry you're feeling this way" and leave it at that.