I guess this thread is a little old but, I for one can understand some of the pain you have gone through.
My WAW got pregnant by OM too.
That was about a year ago.
She actually came to me though for help. I ended up watching our kids (S9 and S5) while she went and terminated. A very difficult time. I thought that that would bring us together but a week later she was back with OM.
I've been on this ride since Aug. 06. Not fun. I've felt like giving up numerous times and I've been burned many times when things looked like we could reconcile. Alas, she still has contact with OM.
I'm just trying to be patient and work on myself. Restraint is the hardest thing. I've had so many setbacks, each time I feel like I have to start all over again. That's where I am right now. Starting over again.
