Quote: it says For your birthday I only wish for your happiness..I signed it love, sue too..I can't seem not to.
I think the sentiment in the card is quite appropriate, b/c I'm sure you truly want that for your H, right? I know what you mean about signing love to his card. It almost seems rude not to, IMHO anyway. Just do what feels right for you.
Thanks for your advice about asking about the wedding. I did ask on Sun. and he said he was thinking about it, still haven't gotten an answer and I've not asked again and won't. I will see him again on Sat at S6's soccer game and not even then. His loss if he feels uncomfortable. Not my problem.
The drifting is the hardest part for me. You seem to handle it pretty well. How? I can't seem to get past the fact that he still, after 10 months at this, has not given me concrete info about where he's living. That bothers the sh*& out of me! I am ignoring it, but it eats away at my PMA like termites eat wood. A little at a time. How do I get past it?
And I don't think you're being picky, just wanting to get your M on the right track again.
JL
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