Dear Hoping, My H has been gone 8wks now. He is very negative and has shot me down too many times.A person can only take so much rejection. 2wks ago I put his clothes outside and asked him to get them. I didn't do it to hurt him but I had to stop crying. I really set him off but have heard from friends that he realized why I did it. I haven't heard from him since. I want to call and say hello or something but I don'y have much to say that isn't neg ( b/c of bills and such). Should I call him to make contact? His daughter was in town and spent time with me and i think he gave her grief for it. I am afraid he is still too raw but i want to let him knwo I still think of him. Help!!!