Hi...have read most of this thread and it sounds like I've been writing it! I don't have an active thread at the moment, wasn't quite sure where I belonged, until I read your thread. I will start a thread about my own sitch, but it sounds much like yours.

How long have you been seperated? Has your H always kept himself in with family functions, or is that something new? The reason I ask is because I have asked my H to a family member's wedding (my side) and he's having to think about it. I truly don't think he's going to go because he's afraid of what my family will say. Did your H just decide and that was it?

And I do feel that I am still just hoping, and not really piecing yet. Patience is my worst virtue, too!

I hope your stripping goes well, hopefully H decided to join you!

JL

Life is not measured in the breaths we take, but in the moments that take our breath away...