Quote: H called me and told me interest rates were really down for a 30 year mortgage, and asked if we should refinance..of course I don't have a problem with it..does that mean we are keeping the house??I can't keep it myself if that is what the future holds and he knows it..I kinda had hoped if he comes back that we could find something else..maybe with some extra space for him and for my sewing/quilting..but I guess that is not in his mind. SO it could be a chance to ask him if this means we are keeping house?????HELP on that one.
during my seperation (and yes while h was in the midst of definately wanting a d) my car insurance ran out...h called me leaving a message that I'd need to call the company and have my car put on his...sounded strange to me that a man who wanted to d me and we would soon be splitting things up would suggest that my car be put on his plan...anywho..I kept such questions to myself...and I'd suggest you do the same...whether or not you end up staying in that home with or without him..refunancing for a lower rate at this point would serve no harm.
things seem to be sailing along nicely for you and h...you are a very patient woman.
