well the wife stopped by today..

[ms ladybug]

You know, I would read Minkermans's threads. He's handled his sitch very well as far as validating. He was in no way a sad puppy (inside I'm sure he was dying), but he was telling his wife that she's free to go, that it's only fair if that's what she wants, then who is he to stop her. He also told her that he may not always wait around for her.

Your wife KNOWS that she can always have you. Maybe if she knows that you're OK without her, she'll think twice about what she'll be giving up.

Good luck on your drive home...