mgoodwin...you are welcome here anytime...there is so much upbeat advice and support here. I know I say I am always the one to ask, invite...but I have always done that..so it is not something new,and I need to learn to accept that about h and know how to use it.

Where did you say you were posting?

I did call h and asked him if he wanted to go to Fathers day picnic at nursing home that my dad is in, and he said yes! Another positive..

I took my own advice last night and complimented my dd20..she just looked at me and said I was "weird"!!!Kids..

Sue