hound, I really appreciate your post and it didn't make me want to kick you, but it's definitely making me think. there's some truths in there for sure. I will respond to this later, I have guests in town, but tonight or tomorrow I'll be able to post. It'll be good to think about it and let it sink in, too. big thanks!
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09