Wouldn't it help to be honest about how we feel instead of pretending it is? I read kissak's post and when she told H how she honestly felt, something clicked in his head.
Part of my telling H how I felt was about D7 and his time with her. He couldnt see her for two weeks but miraculously found time for her to spend the night at his house last week.After I told him what a deadbeat he was..in nicer words.
