You need to realize that there are great changes that she is going through right now. Again, you need to discount what you think is right and really pay attention to what she is telling you. As far as OM is concerned, if it is that bothersome to you that it would cause the end of your marriage then you need to make a sound decision and work with it. However, some of us have been through that before and while it sucks, you can decide to work through it should you continue to try to save your marriage.

I am wondering if she is not trying to reach out to you in some way, but you are missing it?

Hmmmm.....

Me: 33 jacka** whom lied, stole, cheated, and basically treated DW like crap for years
DW: 29 kind soul who gave too much to me over the relationship

S7
S4

M: 7yrs
Bomb: 10/19
Seperated: 10/24

The worst reconciliation is better than the best divorce