My take: Do the family things. Be happy. But, do not get angry with him. Don't nag or complain. Do not talk about the R. Don't bring up your email or phone call.
Act as if nothing happened. Be strong and independent. Be the type of woman you know you can be. Don't kiss him, hug him or show affection. Be there but be distant.
Make sure he knows that something has changed and you are in charge now.
BBJ, I know this will be hard for you. You love him and want him back. You need to be willing to stand on your own for him to want you back.
