Hi Sue.

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I did not get the hug..oh well..I guess that kinda tells me that for now, h does not have those feelings for me. I have to respect them...just kinda sets me back to wondering if he really does despise me.
Perhaps your H was too focused on your conversation, Sue, and simply forgot? I do know that WAs have so much on their minds that they tend to forget relatively simply stuff. Also, I can't possibly imagine your H despises you. You guys seem to communicate pretty well, regardless of the situation of your M, and you do so often. Sorry you're feeling down...

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You would think she might get d before she starts sleeping with another man"....this from my h, whom I as much as accused of having an a with her. I always felt deep down in my heart, past the pain that I felt, that he respected m as much as I do..things just happened in ways that pointed to me believing that she had some kind of hold on him...I do believe he has seen her for what she is....
Yes, I guess that goes to show our Ses can really figure things out for themselves sometimes. Imagine that!

Stay strong, Sue. How about cooking up some extra pizza?

jethro