Would you say it's best to 'go dark' in this situation? I used the LRT to re-establish communication and it worked for that. Going dark seems like a step backward except this time she will remember me in a positive light.
I've genarally been good about not pursuing but last night I felt bad that she was home alone for St. Patrick's day so I invited her to come out with me and some friends. She declined but said we should get together for wine tonight. Is it best to go dark now and not do it. I have some mixed feelings about this. If I go dark then I stop the progress we've been making of getting closer to eachother again in it's tracks and she may see this as rude/insensitive, but it could be what is needed in this situation. If I keep on going like I have been then we will still be friends and doing things together while she is seeing OM, but I think this way if/when OM is gone she knows she has a caring and forgiving person to go back to.
