That is actually the best part of this, no longer being afraid or having to worry.

My H left me, I didn't leave him, its as simple as that. When I first found out, my biggest fear was to lose him to OW, but having him home was even worse than having him gone. Then I was right in the middle of it constantly with no relief. At least this way, there is a respite. If I don't want to deal with it, I just go home or tell him not to come over.

Love the songs ladies, thanks for the links. Earlier, I didn't mean that having the people here wasn't a lot of help, but I know its not the same as having your life back the way you wanted it. We are all here because we are in some sort of painful situation. I love this site and I'm SO GLAD I found it. The lovely people here, keep me sane. Just wanted to clarify. Have a great day.


M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option