if she is seeing someone else i dont know if i can continue, as whats the point? i cant re-earn her if she is dedicating time to a new man, can I? i realise that new relationjships have a mystery that old ones dont. guys im sorry for being whisy washey. but i miss her. she has been my friend for so long that her departur from our relationship has left me without my best friiend. shes diffent and cold to my puppy dog niceness. both of use are acting extreem and we need to become more normal in our interactions. by normal i mean less anxiety from her and less longing from me. keep the help coming folks Marcum