Yeah on the jeans. I know what a good feeling that is..and hopefully someday I will be out of these stretchy clothes!
You are doing great separating your feelings about h and the D from what is best for your kids. I still think that H having S overnight is not ok yet. He is so little and needs the consistency.
Good luck in your L talk tomorrow!!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!