Me too. I have been more vocal and it has actually gotten some results for me. Not all positive results, but in my mind it is better than the limbo and the 'suffering' for over 4 years.
I've been pretty decent about tempering my vocalness until early this morning, I didn't do so good but it was still a statement and not a lunatic rant. Sometimes the truth needs to be shown.
This is EXACTLY how I feel. I have kept my true feelings to myself because I didnt want to "rock the boat" but how healthy is that for me?
H is really just not being a nice HUMAN. I could understand if the WAH was decent and treated the kids the same as he did before he left. But when someone becomes so negligent are we supposed to sit there and smile? Do I continue holding back what I would say to anyone who was acting that way just because he is in a SELFISH mode. Should I be scared he is going to get upset..mind you I beg him for money and tell him that D7 and I need it to survive and he doesn't flinch.
I told him what I felt. H made me a single mother. H made me suffer more than I have ever. And he didn't even reach out a hand .
Why did I open my mouth? Well, I have been quiet and accepting and that has got me.????
I have not been true to myself because i was afraid I was going to ruin everything. But HE ruined everything. I trusted him since I was 16. He ABANDONED us. My best friend turned into myy biggest enemy.
Why cant we voice how we feel??If we do it it in a sane manner , why is it BAD to be true to ourselves and actually feel the emotion of anger and hurt??? Why do I have to feel bad when I voice my emotions?
If my child does something wrondg do I smile and just them them do it in my space.
Fine, H wants to be a complete ass , but do I have to accept it in my space???? H has a choice and so do I.
