WAW's PA over, but still wants Divorce

[Hope4us]

OMG!!!!! Last night it was like my wife was back! We talked and talked and talked. Laughed, joked around with each other. Discussed a trip I had suggested for just us in Oct. Told her that I had reserved a room that has a hide a bed in the living room, that way I could sleep on that and she could have the bedroom to herself, if she decided she wanted to go and she looked at me and made a gesture that said, "it's not a big deal if we have to sleep in the same bed"! Completely stunning! Of course she's still sleeping on the couch at home, but I think that may be my next goal that I set, having her return to sleeping in our bed. Not to try to push any ML or anything (of course, that would be great if it happens, 7 month celibate is starting to get to me!), just to get her to sleep in our bed.

Affair has been over in her mind for 6 weeks (as best I can tell) and the turn around in her attitude the last 3 weeks has been amazing. I don't know if it's because of my DB techniques or some distance being put between the OM and her or a combination of both, but it's truly stunning her changes recently.

She still hasn't brought herself to say she wants to try and make our marriage work, but if things keep going this way, I can only think we'll be moving to the piecing board soon!

I'm trying to not get my hopes up too high, and I'm going to continue with GAL and PMA I've had the last 4 weeks, but all in all it's terribly encouraging.

Funny thing is, now that it seems like we're headed in the right direction, I'm finding myself beginning to feel the anger at her and her affair (and the POS OM). I really need to be careful that I don't blow it before we get to the time to discuss the how, what, why of the affair.