I just read through yours, and boy is there a lot of positives going on. Reading through it in one swoop shows your strength and the changes both you and H are making. H sounds like he is enjoying spending the time with you and likes to be asked to do things together.
One thing that struck me, as I'm struggling with this, is when and if to have OR talks. However, before problems, did you talk R type talk? I just realized my H and I never really did, it wasn't part of our normal routine and maybe I shouldn't be hoping for something that never was.
