Well done Karen, great to hear that you did such a good job of helping your H's sorry a$$ out the door. I hope I can do as well as you in a few months when my W finally moves out!
And I agree with Joie, keep track of everything, the line in the sand is drawn now. Are you going to get his set of keys back off him? He really shouldn't be able to come into the house without prior arrangement anymore, its not his home, its yours now.
Also remember, you are a beautiful, loving, caring person (specially with the weight loss and all the dancing!), you deserve better than your H has been treating you. And of course you have all of us here to remind you if you forget *8)
Brad
Me: 35 W: 34 S8 & S5 M: 11 IDLY: 08/2007
"Freedom's just another word for nothing left to lose" - Janis Joplin, Me and Bobby McGee
"Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it is about dancing in the rain!"