well the wife stopped by today..

[ms ladybug]

Great post houndfan. Thanks for the insight into what you see among police officers. There's a couple of us cop wives on here.

Marcum, what I don't get is why your wife told you that you scared her. Where is she getting this from? Have there been situations where she had been truly scared of you? She said you scared her when you talked loud to your friends, or grabbed her too rough. I know she's mentioned that she thinks you have anger issues. I'm assuming things escalate when there's an arguement. I'm NOT assuming DV, but like with my husband, there's yelling, and just plain anger in our arguements. I think that she's trying to tell you something, because she mentioned it more than once this weekend. What she's trying to tell you, I don't know. Just something to think about.

Sorry your weekend didn't go well. But, I think there's something to be gained from it. Listen, as houndfan said, to what your wife is trying to tell you.