I know this is very small sounding..but so big for me!! H called ME last night..I was in bathroom and it took a few rings to answer and he asked why it took so long..not in a nasty way..just a curious way.. He asked if I had the food to take to his mothers today and he was going to come over in the morning to finish the border in our bathroom that I got stuck on..he then asked if he could bring his laundry..I responed as I did last time "of course..you don't have to ask"..he said "I only ask in case you are doing laundry..then I would not bring it".
He did come by this a.m. finished the border..did some laundry, then went to his moms to do some yard work and eat.
That's about it..I still hope each time that he might bring something up about US..but he does not, and as I said before I am afraid to ask for fear I won't like the answer.. I hope I will know when the time has come for the r talk..in order for both of us to move on...Sometimes I think it is so comfy that we don't need to talk..other times I realize that this can't be rushed...it might be another 6 mos, it might be a year...
