Why are there so many eerie similarities on this forum? Part of me dreads that day that you just had. I still don't know what the heck happened (other than the fact that she decided to explore othe relationships while I was out of town). I know I made mistakes but I wasn't a cold, unloving husband. I gave her everything. urrrgh. In your case, I'm sorry for you. You must be still hurting. I just hope life will get better. Thanks for sharing.