Going to bed now. just got off phone w/H. He called to see how Nate did at school today. As you can imagine he got an earful. I was actually quite calm in describing the bedtime meltdown. Asked H what he would have said to S in that instance. H was silent. I repeated question 2 or 3 times, H was silent........HE FELL ASLEEP!
I was so mad. H said, "I have been up since 3 this morning, sorry I am tired"
After all the bar nights out till 1, 2, or 3, after all the hay trips out till 1, 2, or 3. But H is too tired to talk about S's meltdown.
Then I repeat the question. What should I say if S melts down again tomorrow night? H: Just have him call me and I'll talk to him. Me: What will you say? I need to know we are on the same page.
H didn't answer b/c he fell asleep again.
He fell asleep 3 times in one conversation about S. In between naps he said he would just tell S that he will live with Daddy soon. I said, oh, do you plan on taking him from me? H: I guess...
So right now I hate my H. I really do. But I know it is only b/c I have so much love for him, or I just wouldn't give a crap about him. Tonight though, I just hate him. I can't rely on most of what he said or even what he will remember since he fell asleep repeatedly. But I NEEDED his input tonight. And he couldn't give it. Finally I said I was hanging up b/c I called asking him for his help and he couldn't/wouldn't give it, H replied "You didn't want my help, don't kid yourself...."
Well he is 30% right. I called 70% to help S but 30% for H to see the ramifications of his actions/decisions. But he was too tired to care.......
