Originally Posted By: GavinO
Anyone else had a W that had no want or interest at all in saving the marriage and relationship? No remorse, no upset (so it seems) no possible regrets, nothing??


Gavin,
I am having the same problem. The only good thing is that your W is talking. I have not talked to my W for 3 months. She has started lesbian R, won't talk and is accusing me of physical abuse in court papers that she actually did to me while she was drunk. I also think she has started drinking much more. Alcoholism runs in her family. That sad part is I still love her. It hurts me everyday to drive by her work. I don't know what to say to encourage you but just don't give up if thats what you want. But to be honest, it sounds like she is an addict in some ways to weed. She probably will not change until she hits rock bottom.