zuma, Take heart - please don't be afraid she's made up her mind. I read somewhere that no one is ever 100% sure of their decision to end a M. There is a chance she will change her mind. As you've posted, she no longer brings up divorce PLUS she gave you a hug!!! If she really didn't want to have anything to do with you, she wouldn't want to give you a hug either. If it was me, I wouldn't. I used to be a Walk-away Spouse (in my 1st M). This is my 2nd.
Take note of her complaints of you and work hard on those - to prove to her your changes. And be sure those changes are permanent. She'll know whether they are or not. E.g. get a life doing fun things with other men, or just doing things by yourself. Show you are not needy, etc., by action, without announcing to her what you are doing. Actions speak louder than words. Spelling it out to her might even have a negative impact.
