I have read all the MLC stuff here and several other books on the topic. I know about the six stages. I guess I am just wondering if the end is kindof clear or if it is a series of coming and going, connecting then drifting.
There is no doubt in my mind that my H is still deep in replay. He has been there on and off this entire year. But just as soon as I think he is kindof waking up he no sooner runs again.
Right now he is an alcoholic. Slowly he became more and more of a drinker when his business started going down hill, and his drinking has become out of control for over a year now. He practically lives at the bar.
I don't like to think of this being on any specific timeline, because I just know it all takes a lot of time. So I need to be patient. Understanding all this gives some patience so any guidance would be valued.
Did your H come and go before he got to this entering of the acceptance stage? TIPPER
