I guess the question that looms on my mind..is that she wants this, and no matter what I do, she still feel this is the right thing to do.
Now, yes she commited adultery, so does that mean I can, as a Christian husband divorce her, even though it is not my call. Surely, God doesn't want me in a loveless marriage. For us to walk with God, we have to live according to His will..so wouldn't that mean that being in a marriage with an ungodly spouse who doesnt want in it be NOT in God's best interest for our lives on this earth?
I have walked with God for a long time (since I was a child, was saved at 14, now 33, but only for the past two years have I renewed my faith stronger than ever) and I have felt that God would answer our prayers in His own way to help us, even if it didnt work the way we planned..."for the greater good" as they say.
I know God does not want this to happen, but if W is blind to the idea that we could try to work on M, why would I stand for, possibly the rest of my life, waiting for something that could never happen?
I guess that is my concern..I would like to reconcile, but I can't fight someone that walks away..I feel maybe God has a different plan in place for me that I maybe need to follow..one that doesn't include W.
