sandi, cog, just to let you both know, most of what transpired was an interior shuffle within myself. my wife did not see any of it. my mistake was asking her whether she was going to move out and suggesting she use the money from her fathers estate to do so. guilty as charged on that account. just plain stupidity on the rest, selfish stupidy. fortunately she saw none of it. it was a temporary brain fart, so to speak.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023