Haha, my W said the same exact things..."finally sleeping well, knots in my back are gone, feeling great, i don't miss TV at all, i'm really enjoying being on my own". That was 6 weeks ago.

Now it's "it's so nice to have someone to hug, you smell great, can you please rub my back/feet - i'm all tied in knots, i sure do get lonely sometimes, wow it's so nice to watch a movie with you".

I think it's progress, and it is happening so gradually I don't even see how big it is until I type it out like this.

But it is still, for me, a delicate sitch that can go sour with one stupid move. So that is why I got a DB coach, and why I bounce everything off of the fine folks here!

Good luck, and take one hour, one day, one week at a time....

I hope this happens for you as well, buddy.

Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!