Laurie..thanks for stopping by..I see you are new...have you posted your story somewhere?? What you said about asking your h and hearing not what you really would like...but he is not totaly dismissing it all..how long have you been m, is he still at home? I see so much good that has happened these past 6 months that he has been gone...that I have a fairly high hope that he does not really want to end our m, yet another part of me tells me that because he won't make any of the moves...(like call to go out to supper when both our kids are around, a movie..whatever..) means that he does not really want to work on our r..get to know each other again..like he stated we need to do when he left. He also said he needs time and space to find himself and what he needs...soooooo..... that is why I wait.
Take care and welcome

Sue