hey, all, just coming to check up on everyone. I see cat has changed her user name; it's a good one to pick, cat.
Sometimes it doesn't feel as if it is passing fast enough, but I know it will.
My H has been acting ok for now, and still has not offered any explanation for the jewelry receipt with an extra piece of jewelry on it. And I haven't brought it up, either.
One thing he is doing is actually spending time with our S15 again. They are building a clubhouse that I bought for our S three years ago, and H wasn't at all interested in us then. He is taking him driving on the weekends. he is attending church with us, although he has been doing that all along anyway.
What I don't understand is that he carried on an EA when he hasn't really changed the amount of time he is at home. The only real changes are that he now actually stays near us in the house, instead of getting smashed downstairs, and he isn't a half hour or so late in the evenings and doesn't leave a half hour early in the mornings. I guess he carried on the affair mostly during work hours. So, given the jewelry purchase, and the still secret cell phone, it makes me wonder how much is still going on. I mean does a man buy jewelry for a woman he doesn't have some sort of a thing with? And I know it wasn't for his mama. She would've told me.
I don't know what the experts say about the timeline of an EA, but it would be about three years ago this summer. Shouldn't it be winding down now, dying that natural death I have heard about?
Did anyone watch court tv today? Or rather, tru tv? It is the case of a cop who had an affair with someone at work, a dispatcher, and had a child with her, and then broke it off after almost three years, and the ow started texting the wife, and sending her nasty and threatening messages, then dressed all in black went to where the wife worked and made her kneel on the ground and shot her, after telling her that she (the wife) had ruined HER life. These psycho women, thinking they have the RIGHT to our Hs. Just blows my mind, and I sometimes think what if the ow in my case decides she has waited long enough. I mean they already have no self-esteem if they go after married men.
I wish ow would stop waiting and go away, already.
Our S said out of the blue the other day he really had to give me credit for the way I was trying to hold our family together during all this, because he wasn't sure if he could.
Well, they are due home any minute, so see yall later.
L God bless everyone with a good night's sleep-- wish I could have one.
