Right back at you, Jeff (btw, my name is Donna). Yes, you need to do for you. Take care of you. Put your marriage on the shelf for awhile. You cant control her or her reactions, you can only control you. So, what are you going to do for you today? Think of something you always wanted to do, or something that makes you happy, it could be anything at all, the possibilities are endless. Sieze the day, my friend. Remember, you matter!

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