That's why I started this thread. I want those just now going through a D and processing the settlement to remember these things. I want them to realize these guys don't really change. Not 5 years later, not really ever. We must think of everything we do as a business decision. We hear it, but sometimes don't heed it.
I know I've never lived in la-la land Friend. I honestly think we thought they were kind and honorable people. My X perpetuated that once. But I think a person's true colors come out in a D. His surely did. I talked to him today about caps and gowns.
He doesn't want to be bothered. He's busy. It's always been me who's taken care of things. It always will be. When my babies are having babies it will be me who knows and him who is told by me what's happening.
But Friend, I win. I get to have the call. I get to have the conversation about it with my child. I would not want it any other way.
These guys are so clueless. And I'm so darned lucky.
