I have been following your sitch for a while now as it is similar to mine , however I think you are a bit more advanced in the process. I do enjoy the approach you have and with hound working with the try it and monitor results process. The contact thing has been an issue for me as well. In my case W does enjoy the contact by TXT but I think it has become too easy for her. I think you can relate to this . Your W can relax a bit because you are assured to contact her and this will be of comfort to her even if she says its not. If she realy wants the contact then I think she will work for it .
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This 180 would show her that I am not needy (or at least make her wonder...).
Exactly , I would still respond to her contact , but thats my take on it as non response could be seen as a negative. However the response should just be friendly but dealing with the issue.
If she does cantact for friendly banter then I would respond accordingly and play. The idea is to get her in the habit of contacting you and rewarding that action.
Thats my plan to try , I will be watching with interest .
