basically wrote down on paper that i was beginning to fall out of love with her. how much that scared me and how sad it made me feel.
Well I'm really glad you didn't give her that letter, it's pitifull. Lets not forget, love is NOT a feeling, it's an action. And don't get love and attraction mixed up. Those are two very different things.
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i also wrote how love will die if you do not feed it.a few times over the weekend i just wanted to blurt it out. but i restrained myself.
I'm glad to hear that too. That was great restraint. Remember, her love(attraction) is already dead. I assure you, she understands how it died, she does not need anyone, especially YOU, explaing that to her.
I'm a little confused as to why you would be pressing her on the D. It seems you are almost daring her. She's not 100% sure about it, that's a guaruntee. It's your job to speak to the part of her that is not sure. Show her the loving, caring, supportive, fun, joyful, fearless, worryless, unbridled, MAN that you are. It's time to step it up, get off the pittypot, shake off those shackles, and rock man! Be bold, be daring, be creative, be different.
Treat her differently, speak differently, act differently. The same old thing will reap the same old thing.
God Bless,
COG
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