Need advice: What stage of MLC?

[4myfamily]

Hi thanks for the replies. I believe the MLC started about 2 years ago when we moved to a new country.

The PA starting in Nov/Dec 2007.

I got the 'Bomb' early January 08 and the PA was discovered in early February 08.

W is here under the same roof as she does not want to leave the children. She attempted to sever ties with OM in early March.

I did some terrible backsliding last night as I got a bit angry, not sure where that came from as, until yesterday, I was feeling detached. Must get back to giving her more space.