yea that's what everyone keeps telling me but they have now been seeing each other for at least 1 Year...
so I really don't get it...I don't have a clue what he sees in her and what keeps him going to her or why if he wants to be with her, he doesn't file and go do it
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!
she says what he wants to hear and strokes his ego and makes the demons go away...the euphoric stage. most of the time these ow cant keep this up, their true colors have to come out. he doesnt want to ile because he doesnt want to at this time. so dont mention D or may just do that.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
the kicker is...I may have to if the financial sitch doesn't improve or if it gets worse.
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!
I am thinking of getting my Realistate liscence. I am trying to be more prompt at work and put more hours in. Going out more to get out of this house. Spending more time with my girls. Taking better care of my house. Working on some internal issues with myself. Trying to find some extra income. Working through what I am going to do with the rest of my life and where I will go if/when H decides what he wants.
GO FOR IT!! Self accomplishments, action plans, and spending time with your girls bring victory. I support your GAL!
[quote]I take each day by day and hour by hour.
I'm proud of you! Keep your emotions at bay. We all have our ups and downs - regardless of marital problems. Rely on God, and your strength. Do not allow your problems to be bigger than your life. Your H can decide to stay or not. I am hoping for a reconciliation! At this moment, its YOUR decision to remain stuck, or to have faith, and live life to the fullest.
I am thinking of getting my Realistate liscence. I am trying to be more prompt at work and put more hours in. Going out more to get out of this house. Spending more time with my girls. Taking better care of my house. Working on some internal issues with myself. Trying to find some extra income. Working through what I am going to do with the rest of my life and where I will go if/when H decides what he wants.
GO FOR IT!! Self accomplishments, action plans, and spending time with your girls bring victory. I support your GAL!
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I take each day by day and hour by hour.
I'm proud of you! Keep your emotions at bay. We all have our ups and downs - regardless of marital problems. Rely on God, and your strength. Do not allow your problems to be bigger than your life. Your H can decide to stay or not. I am hoping for a reconciliation! At this moment, its YOUR decision to remain stuck, or to have faith, and live life to the fullest.
I am thinking of getting my Realistate liscence. I am trying to be more prompt at work and put more hours in. Going out more to get out of this house. Spending more time with my girls. Taking better care of my house. Working on some internal issues with myself. Trying to find some extra income. Working through what I am going to do with the rest of my life and where I will go if/when H decides what he wants.
GO FOR IT!! Self accomplishments, action plans, and spending time with your girls bring victory. I support your GAL!
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I take each day by day and hour by hour.
I'm proud of you! Keep your emotions at bay. We all have our ups and downs - regardless of marital problems. Rely on God, and your strength. Do not allow your problems to be bigger than your life. Your H can decide to stay or not. I am hoping for a reconciliation! At this moment, its YOUR decision to remain stuck, or to have faith, and live life to the fullest.
toh...hang in there...your nc is still no fresh..let him rant....and spew...just stay low..
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!
after being apart for a year, how and the h*ll is it possible to ever put this back together...and keep it together...
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!
ask steelers...hher h was gone 3 yrs. imlins h was gone 2, let him run his journey w/o interference. that includes ow
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
