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Kalni,

Sorry you had such a bad dream. Sometimes they seem so real, and you wake up and are still terrified....

Glad you reached out to H. It seemed natural that you wanted to.

I am also glad you sent the e-mail. Whether he responds or not, you got to share what you are thinking/feeling, and that is important. It is tough to keep things inside of you all the time. At least it is for me.

I hope you can relax some this evening after a hard day at work. Thinking of you

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Hi,

My H did call to speak to the kids, and we had to talk to each other. I would have avoided that but my kids were not here, his father (FIL) was, so I couldn't just pretend I wasn't home.

He sounded, sweet and friendly and did not mention anything about the mail. I was the same. I am coming down with a cold, on top of a difficult week I'll be sick...

Great timing as always...

K

Ali, your info actually did matter for my decision,
Liz, I don't expect any answers from him, I expect him to think about it and show me with his behaviour what it meant to him...
I am not done yet...


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Quote:
I am not done yet...


Best thing I have heard in a long time. \:D


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Kalni,

I am sorry about the dream. I've had a few of those as well. I'm sure he took your talk in the best possible way and given his reaction I'd say it was positive.

I'm glad you aren't done yet. 'Cause it ain't over until he comes home.



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Where is Jeff when I need him?

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(((((Kalni)))))
I'm here!
I'm not a great dream interpreter, so I think I will pass on that!

But, as far as everything else....
He is creeping closer, maybe swinging a bit liek a pendulum, but he is working at it. I think it is time to let him lead a bit. Listen to him, and watch. Be warm, I think you can use your flirty voice a bit, too. I think you a have given him enough to think about for a while. It will take his male brain a while to sort it out!

Woog, just so you know, Kalni is hot!

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((Jeff))
It was about time...

#1 "swinging a bit liek a pendulum" what is this? Not English, is it?
#2 I will use my warm sexy voice as soon as I get over my cold...
#3 Woog did you read THAT? Listen to Jeff, he knows what he is talking about...

XXXXX
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Originally Posted By: Kalni
((Jeff))
It was about time...

#1 "swinging a bit liek a pendulum" what is this? Not English, is it?
#2 I will use my warm sexy voice as soon as I get over my cold...
#3 Woog did you read THAT? Listen to Jeff, he knows what he is talking about...

XXXXX
K


Well, I could fix my typing now, but then you would look silly, so I won't do it!

Sorry you have a cold, it's that time of year, I guess, with the weather changing! We are having a cool rainy day today, it's only about 50F (ok let's see... 10C). But it is supposed to be in the 80s (27C or so) by Wednesday. Hopefully this is "winter's" last stand!

If Woog decides to ignore you, well, it's his loss!

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I have to work at some point. Why does jeff know how hot you are and I don't?

I always knew she was hot. You can just tell.....



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Because I sent him an "artsy" picture of mine (that's what he caled it and it is)...

K

Woog, already work over ME?


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