Yoyo & Grumpy-

Thanks so much! Grumpy, I have to disagree with you on one thing.....knowing people are pulling for me does help. I think of everyone on this board A LOT.

I used to worry about being home on time or not being out to long in case H would be home or us missing him. I don't worry any more. If he can't adjust his schedule for us, I don't need to adjust ours to him. He had a disappointed tone in his voice the other day when I told him that we were going to the movie on Sat. & then to my Aunt & Uncles on Sun. He knows he's more than welcome to join us (yes I have told him this), so it's his loss if he doesn't.

I had a long talk with my best friend on Friday night. She's been in a long distance relationship for about 2 years. Both she and he are divorced...her 10 years, him 3. She told me that she's thinking about ending it. We had a long talk about how we both need to start living life again and getting out there and doing things. She's a mom of 3....1 in college, 1 soon to be & 1 in Jr. High. We're the same age but have gone through similar things in our lives. It was nice to talk to her. We had a few tears together but it was nice.

SueS


ME: 42, H: 42, D6
Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs.
Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009
Status: Working on it day by day