Amen to that Yoyo! You took the words right out of my mouth. He seems to have a lot of disposable income. His first obligation is to your DD3.
You are a very strong woman and you are setting a great example for your D, you should be proud of yourself. You will be ok, there is no question in my mind.
Your H will have to deal with the fall out from the choices he has made. I know its hard to watch your child go through it, but he needs to facilitate his relationship with your D. You already have one.
Keep your head up, I know its not much help, but there are people out here pulling for you.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option