Wanderer, thanks for posting that response. I understand some of the anxiety you felt because I feel it everytime my W gets a phone call or text message on her cell phone. Who is it? What is being said? How does she feel about it? Yeah, I get it. For me, I just muscle through it and hope for the best.
What we have is an awesome hook that no other man can replace; we are her children's father. My opinion is that most women cannot completely fail to feel the connection between the father and children, and deep down, just know that they are doing wrong by their children for messing up the marriage. Just my thought.