No, he has not started IC yet. He says he needs to go, needs to get himself figured out. I asked him last night in one of our R convos if he had found an IC. That pushed the anger button and I got an earful about how he has worked 2 weeks non-stop 6 am to 7 pm with an overwhelming new job and spent weekends working on the house in Kansas City.....so he just didn't have time yet dammit!
Of course in hindsight I am wondering how he always made time to text and call OW during work, even his first week at the new job, but no time to call a counselor???? This week he is out of state Mon-Thurs for work so he won't call until next week, probably. So frustrating.
