Didn't think of that part Kerry. I am definitely not ready to be pursued. Although I did mention to H that if we are separated for a long time I am worried that I would be vulnerable to OM attention b/c I thrive on affection/touch/encouraging words, all of which H knows. I told him I would never want to do anything outside our M b/c of the pain I have experienced from his doing so, but at the same time if I met someone in my job that wanted to listen to me, encourage me, and make me feel like I was special, I would have to really guard myself against the temptation. He looked a little sick about that....I don't think it has ever occurred to him that I might move on instead of waiting for him.....
