Thank you Sally. I really appreciate the hug. I hate this out of sorts feeling today. I know the cold I still have doesn't help but I also know that anniversary is playing on my mind today.
I wish I had handled things differently in some ways but at least I never tried not to be fair and I tried to save the marriage so I have a clear conscious and to me that is important.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"