Well its a step. If the OW is coming and he is dreading it, that may be an indication that his realization that his stereotyping of you was just that. His percepttion,based on what he was doing. Its easier to do things you know are wrong if you can excuse your behavior because someone else is to blame. Ok, how random fortune cookie was that?

Glad you had a good time at your party, I just realized you are in Sac. I'm about 4 hrs to the South. After looking at all of the people from Cali. that are on these boards I'm starting to wonder what is up in the Golden State?

It sounds positive, just keep doing what you are doing and let him discover for himself that the OW is not the answer to the problem, just a distraction and a complication. Have a great day!

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option